I am in desperate need of help. With more than one thing - please read

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Permalink Reply by Lilly Lyyjoki on September 11, 2009 at 11:35am

First stop stressing about everything. I know it is not easy but worry only clutters up your mind. You need to learn how to relax, and meditate. Since there is already a person on this site that explains how to do this, I am going to refer you to Will's blog. There are links on the home page to get to it. You can find information and how to meditate, use visualization, how to ground yourself and more.

I know it is difficult when you lose something. Then too you are having other negative thoughts that are coming to you and you are letting all these control you. Once you are in a calm state, you can have a better understanding.

The claddagh ring is a beautiful ring representing friendship (the two hands), loyalty (the crown) and love (the heart). I am just writing this so others if they do not know what it looks like. To find it or anything lost. (Refer to the information I wrote about first) Once you are in a calm state, try and remember when you LAST had the ring. Use your mind's eye to look for it. Once you have it in your vision, look at the surroundings, what you were feeling, who else was there, as much detail as possible. Then go from that point to when you realized it was gone. This part can be hours to days which means a lot can happen, but stay focused on just the ring. You are following the ring (the object) and you wrote you have a strong connection to the ring so let the ring show you where it is at. Remember to be calm, stay focused, listen to your inner voice / guides voice and don't force the vision. That is mentally think about the ring, let your own intuitive ability show you. This can help in locating lost things or objects.

I have tried to connect with you but I am picking up static. So I am unable to "look " for you.

Your second question about having tragic dreams or dreams that come true, are precognitive or having precognition. Prior knowledge of a future events. This does not always happen in dreams. Precognition can happen anytime and doesn't always involve bad things that are going to happen but in effect more precognitive visions, dreams etc. tend to not have a good outcome. It is the interpretation of the dream /vision that can be difficult. Some can happen as if you are actually there wittnessing the event, a part of the event, or others may be more scambled up with symbolizism, then too some are a mix. I would like to suggest keeping a dream / vision journal. Keep it by your bed and when you wake up immediately write it down. If you wait the dream / vision can become muddled with other thoughts you are having. Write it down and include even the strangest details. Don't try and interpret it just write it down. Once you have written it down then read it. As you read it you may remember more, if so write it down. Then read it through one last time. Again add any other detail you remember and then don't read it let it set. When writing down a dream / vision if you remember the background or setting of the dream draw a simple diagram. If there are words, numbers, colors, symbols, etc. try and remember them and write them down or on the diagram where they were located. Sometimes one dream blends into another dream. Typically a precognition dream typically is a separate dream. Blended dreams can be confusing but still they can contain meaning, where one event leads to another event. Sometimes if you dream about something horrible the sub-conscious may try and fix it or try and make it better by going to a new dream. The mind / brain needs to dream to function and keep balance.

Back to the dream / vision journal, needs to be read in a calm state (again see the blog I mentioned earlier) and can be read and interpreted in a few ways. That is, how you can do it. One is to read it and then see if you understand the meaning. This is just using your conscious mind, like when you read a book, newspaper, etc. This takes little preparation and it is safe. Write down any notes, that you like that helps clarify what you are reading. It helps to use a different color ink if you write on the same pages. This would be similar to writing a summary or writing down questions or information as you beleive is missing or important.

Another way to get a deeper interpretation is to perform a vision quest. This takes preparation. This can present harm to you if done incorrectly. This is best learned from someone who knows what they are doing. If you know someone who has done vision quests then they could show you. I do vision quests but I can not explain how to do it. I am not a teacher, and would be afraid to leave a detail out. Vision quests do take time to learn and need your whole being to be in the proper state. It is best to start out slowly and advance. Start with meditation to get in tune with yourself. Then it also depends on what your beliefs are. Maybe prayer would work for you or a combination.

Last your dream about your boyfriend's Uncle. You write that you continue to have a dream. I take this to mean you have a recurring dream. Does this dream keep "replaying" the same? In the dreams does anything change? Were you close to your boyfriend's Uncle, that is friends or had contact with him while he was alive? You write he was "accidentlly" murdered. Legally, murder has intent, and is premeditated. Manslaughter is without the intent or premediatation. From what you wrote you believe he was murdered. Do you recognize the woman? Do you recognize where this happened? If you can recognize the woman and the place. Write down the details, but do not actually make contact with this woman or go to the place. First you don't want to place yourself in a position of geting hurt. Second if there is evidence still at the place you do not want to disturb it. If you are able to get clear details of what happened and then write down the details. If you can do this then find out the dectectives name who is handling the case. Send the information anonymously to the detective. He will read it. Do not write that you had a dream about this as the information may not be taken seriously. The reason for being anonymous is to protect yourself, if the information you give leads to the actual event and the evidence provides for a conviction, it is best for you. This type of situation is hard to deal with. You must be accurate and not add what you think happened. Review the dreams over and over before taking any action.
Lilly

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Permalink Reply by Larry Bernard on October 23, 2009 at 3:55pm

hi maggie,
i'm new here and just wanted to say hi and i hope you find your ring.... and well like i have been doing lately "just throwing it out there" do you have a bird bath or feeder or something of water like that maybe in your back yard or anything? maybe cleaning it or doing something it could have fallen off in or around the eges... hope things are going well now
best wishes,
Larry

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Permalink Reply by DeborahAnna on October 23, 2009 at 10:50pm

When I lost and item that was important to me I just thought about before going to sleep and just focused my energy on it and when I went to sleep I had a dream that showed me where to look and found it .You may wish to try that.Sometimes it takes more than one time but it usually works .

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Permalink Reply by TarotWiz on January 13, 2010 at 9:21pm

Hi Maggie:

I recommend that you ask the universe for your ring to come back to you. It may sound strange, but it does carry your energy and if you ask daily for a week or two you will be surprised that it most likely will show up when you least expect it. I told my neice this last year when she lost a clear quartz crystal pendulum that I had given her and she would ask the universe to bring her pendulum back to her and was amazed that it showed up two weeks later outside of her house on the ground by her front door step.

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